pín jiàn zhī jiāo bù kě wàng,zāo kāng zhī qī bù xià táng
ㄆ一ㄣˊ ㄐ一ㄢˋ ㄓ ㄐ一ㄠ ㄅㄨˋ ㄎㄜˇ ㄨㄤˋ,ㄗㄠ ㄎㄤ ㄓ ㄑ一 ㄅㄨˋ ㄒ一ㄚˋ ㄊㄤˊ
贫贱之交不可忘,糟糠之妻不下堂是中性词。
贫贱之知不可忘,糟糠之妻不下堂
Forget not the friends whom you have made in mean circumstances, desert not the wife whom you have married in poor circumstances.